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Portuguese:

Falar de si

Falar mal do outro parece fácil de entender. Mais do que fazer uma crítica, é intensificar a crítica ao ponto de, por meio dela, destruir o objeto criticado. Porém aquele que fala, mal ou bem, sempre fala de si mesmo. Se falo mal do outro, realizo meu desejo violento em relação ao outro. Afirmo que não simpatizo, não gosto, mas, sobretudo, que preciso me expressar de modo negativo porque o outro me sugere aspectos negativos. Porém quem se expressa sou eu. O elemento mais importante do gesto de falar mal é a autoexpressão negativa. Falo de mim mesmo ao falar do outro. Por outro lado, falando mal do outro, me sinto melhor comigo mesmo. Há ainda a ilusão da autocompensação: ao falar mal do outro, mostro a mim mesmo que sou melhor que ele.
Fonte: TIBURI, Márcia. Revista vida simples. Dez 2008, pp.62-63 (Fragmento)


And now, the translation by me:

Badmouthing people

Badmouthing others seems easy to understand. More than criticizing, it's to intensify the critique to the point of, through it, destroy the criticized object. However, the one who says either a good or bad thing about others, is always talking about himself. If I speak ill of another person, I accomplish my violent desire towards others. I say that I don't support, I don't enjoy something, but, especially, I need to express myself in a negative way because the other suggests me negative aspects. Nevertheless, who express the opinion is me. The most important element at the gesture of talking is the negative self-expression. I talk about myself when I badmouth others. In another way, when I badmouth others, I feel better about myself. There is also the illusion of self-aligning: when I badmouth others, I show myself that I'm better than them.





Well, I always had the feeling that people that are harsh with others are usually harsh with themselves too.
But I won't say too much this time. I'll leave the opinions to you guys XD








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