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When I comment thanking for the favorites in your main pages?
Or when I make small comments, once in a while, commenting how nice is your gallery?

I don't like to hide facts. I prefer to clarify them.

I was strongly harassed because of that lately. And I asked myself why I was the one picked, since I know hundreds of guys do the same things since years, here in DeviantART. Basically, I learned with them that I could do that. And some even do and use plz accounts to thank others. I never though that this kind of comment could be considered spam. Since I just though spam was just a way of promoting yourself/trying to
sell something.I just...like to talk with people. And usually,when we know someone new, we start with a generic phrase, don't we? "Hi, nice weather!" (lol wut). And I can say I made good friends and got into long chats because of this little introduction.

Another fact... I'm horrible at memorizing names, but good at memorizing avatars.
Then I give a little comment at someone's page. This someone ignored me, since he/she is very busy to answer or didn't care about it.Some months pass, the same person changes the avatar (and sometimes the art style too, since people improve). So I check the gallery again, by coincidence. Well, I won't recognize, and I'll treat him/her like I never know him/her, since I just tried to talk to him/her once.
At this part, I agree, I'm sorry for my lack of attention. Maybe I should really stop doing random comments.

I just memorize people who actually care for me. I could make a list of them. Some I know since years, some are recent. I give attention and special comments to those who are also special to me. And they don't need to have the best drawings of the world, they just need to be... nice, warm people.

I just remember that in 2008 October, I made a poll asking if my comments bothered my watchers, and, for my surprise, they didn't.(You can check here - [link] )
But I don't know if opinions changed now.
Well, I can say... if this is really bothersome, I can stop.




And just to hit a flame I received. A person told me that I just have this number of pageviews because I "spam" others, since my art is horrible.
( Well, I know it isn't so great, since it has lots of flaws and things that I need to improve, but it also isn't the worst thing of the world)
So... let's compare:
Kurama-chan has 149,200 pageviews total and her 270 deviations were viewed 402,993 times.
Well, there's something wrong with this "spam" theory, isn't there?





By the way, I'm noticing it's happening a lot of Drama lately o_o
And...I'm confused. I'm seeing many similar accounts being created lately, and I don't even know their true intentions. This smells lulz.




I just think I need to give up trying to please everybody, since there will always be people who will hate you without motive, or mock you just for fun, not caring about your reasons.
I see great artists and friends being disturbed just because...they are great.
Well, many children have access to internet, so... Some will grow up, some won't. That's a bit sad.

Honestly, I don't appreciate this kind of confusion and misunderstanding. Why hate someone you don't even know personally?
People should take things easier.



And just give this all a lighter feeling, I'll end this journal with this. XD
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